Why is being a adult so tough

When I was younger I thought it would be cool being a adult but I come to realize that there are many things u gotta deal with such as heartbreak, lies, job loss u name it. I feel like no matter what I strive to do I feel like I'm not doing the rite thing because I am not getting good results. I got used, lied to my name scandalized u name it. I always try to compare myself to other people when I shouldnt. I know that even when I dont do right I am still a man of God despite wat others might say. I just wish that things cud fall into place rite now but I am learing how to trust in Jesus and to be patient so thats wat I'ma do I need your prayers because its hard for me to let go of the past sometimes but I want a better future n outlook so pray for me and I'll do the same for u. HAPPY THANKSGIVING N GOOD BESS U N LOVE Y"ALL